You are not legally required to tell your partner your pregnancy decision. However, considering your partner’s feelings and maintaining open lines of communication is important if you plan on staying with your partner.

Read on to learn more about things to consider when deciding whether to tell your partner. Or, if you’re looking for a safe, non-judgmental space to talk about your pregnancy and learn about free supportive resources, contact Women’s Clinic of the Antelope Valley to schedule a free, confidential appointment. 

Do You Know Your Options?

It’s critical to understand each of your options before making a pregnancy decision. 

Abortion is just one pregnancy option—your other choices include parenting and adoption. 

It’s important to know that abortion comes with risks to your physical and mental health, and not every woman is eligible for every abortion procedure. This is why it’s critical to meet with a healthcare provider to look over your medical history and discover whether abortion is an option for your situation.

Learning all you can about your options will help you feel more confident about talking to your partner regarding what choice you’re considering. Plus, when your partner tells you his feelings and worries, you can share your own thoughts, knowing that your opinion is rooted in research.

What Future Do You Envision with Your Partner?

Open communication and mutual respect for each other’s feelings are the keys to a healthy relationship.

When deciding whether to tell your partner about how you want to move forward in the pregnancy, it’s important to consider whether you want to stay with your partner long-term. If so, then talking to your partner about your pregnancy decision is foundational.

If you’re worried that your partner won’t agree with your decision, you might also feel concerned about how they will react. This is understandable, but it’s important to know that his feelings about the situation are valid. 

If you and your partner want to stay together, it is ideal to reach a mutual decision about the pregnancy. If you two are having trouble agreeing, dialoguing in front of a counselor, relative, or mutual friend can help you talk and share your feelings more effectively by providing a safe, neutral space.

*If you’re worried about your safety in the relationship, you shouldn’t be alone with your partner. Furthermore, if you’re concerned about your immediate safety, call 911 or reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline.

We’re Here for You

Thinking about your pregnancy options can feel overwhelming, but you’re not alone in this. At Women’s Clinic of the Antelope Valley, we’re here for you.

We offer free pregnancy resources, services, and information to help you have what you need to stay healthy, feel supported, and make an informed decision. 

Contact us today to schedule a free, confidential appointment.