When facing an unexpected pregnancy, sorting through your options can be overwhelming. You essentially have three paths to consider: abortion, making an adoption plan, or parenting.
Each choice carries its own complexities and challenges. Abortion is not your only option.
I Don’t Want To Be Pregnant
Begin by identifying exactly why you don’t want to be pregnant. Is it the physical aspect of pregnancy, the financial responsibility, the impact on lifestyle, or concerns about raising a child? Recognizing specific ideas can help in finding targeted information and support.
For many, abortion seems like a quick way out. But many women experience mental health issues days, weeks, or even years after an abortion. Learning more about pregnancy and the changes it brings can demystify the process and bring peace that abortion might not solve.
For some, the desire to nurture and guide a young life is a powerful motivator that can outweigh fears, for which parenting would be a great option. For others, personal or professional aspirations may take precedence, and adoption would be an alternative.
Parenting
Parenting is demanding yet can be immensely rewarding. When considering this path, reflect on these questions:
- Do I have a loving, safe environment for a child?
- Is there a support system available for parenting assistance?
- Will the baby’s father be involved?
- Can I financially support a child?
- What personal qualities and resources can aid me in parenting?
Women’s Clinic of the Antelope Valley offers support that includes but is not limited to pregnancy and parenting education, referrals to necessary services, and material gifts, such as diapers, clothes, car seats, and pack & plays.
Making an Adoption Plan
Adoption is often misunderstood, but it is a wonderful choice offering security and growth opportunities for your child. You control the process and can choose from different adoption plans:
- Open adoption: You maintain a relationship with the child and adoptive family through direct contact.
- Semi-open adoption: Communication with the adoptive family occurs through intermediaries like adoption attorneys or agencies.
- Closed adoption: This option provides the most privacy, with sealed records and anonymity.
It’s vital that any adoption plan is your decision, free from coercion. Adoption services are typically cost-free, and you might be eligible for financial and material assistance.
You’re Not Alone
An unexpected pregnancy can feel isolating, but remember, you’re not alone. Women’s Clinic of the Antelope Valley offers free, confidential services to help explore your options.
Contact us to schedule an appointment. We are here to support you every step of the way.
